{"id":5499,"date":"2023-10-14T18:40:45","date_gmt":"2023-10-14T11:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/?p=5499"},"modified":"2023-10-14T18:40:45","modified_gmt":"2023-10-14T11:40:45","slug":"lam-the-nao-de-vuot-qua-ap-luc-dong-trang-lua-peer-pressure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/lam-the-nao-de-vuot-qua-ap-luc-dong-trang-lua-peer-pressure\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e0m Th\u1ebf N\u00e0o \u0110\u1ec3 V\u01b0\u1ee3t Qua \u00c1p L\u1ef1c \u0110\u1ed3ng Trang L\u1ee9a \u2013 Peer Pressure"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u1ede tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi khi so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t khi ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 h\u01a1n khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng cao v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

Peer pressure l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh ch\u00fang ta. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f9ng c\u00f4ng ty, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Peer pressure (\u00c1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a) n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean nhau. Khi g\u1eb7p lo\u1ea1i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

\u00c1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. N\u00f3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eb7t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u00e0 h\u01a1n thua, peer pressure s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u00c1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m, t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ganh t\u1ecb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a?<\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c tung h\u00f4 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Peer pressure xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng khi ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp, b\u1ecb chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi Peer pressure<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u00e1p l\u1ef1c peer pressure, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra. H\u00e3y x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc s\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i hay l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i “h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi”, h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3. \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft peer pressure b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m g\u00ec, \u01b0u ti\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec lu\u00f4n n\u1eb1m trong tay b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u1eebng gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h3>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn peer pressure nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c hay ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn chung, peer pressure kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tr\u00e1nh so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u1ede tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi khi so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t khi ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 h\u01a1n khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5887,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ky-nang"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5499"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5499\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5535,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5499\/revisions\/5535"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5887"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mhgvietnam.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}